Each "spark of spirit" is separate and different from the other sparks of spirit. There is no "oneness". Instead, there is an "infiniteness". There is no "one thing", there is an infinite number of things. In fact, not only is each person separate and different from each other, each person's soul has multiple sparks of spirit that are separate and different from each other! Each person is not "one"! Each person is "many"!

So anyone who says "we are all one", they are simply wrong and bloody stupid. We are NOT one. We are all separate and different.

Part of the motivation to say "we are all one" is simply reduce all problems down to something so simple even a complete moron can understand it. The problem with that is it doesn't work. It's like saying "to get to anywhere in the world, just walk forward". It doesn't work, because you can't just walk forward to get to your desired destination. It doesn't take into account DIRECTION, or even obstacles! People who say "we are all one", then clearly DON'T CARE about the problems in the world, or else they'd dismiss this "Solution" because it clearly doesn't work. They only say this because they don't want to think.

What's easier to understand as a solution? "we are all one"? Or "everyone needs to have equal or greater true-care or natural-respect to their self-interest and have zero sadism". Of course the second one is harder to understand. And thats why you would need to care more to understand it, because it would take more effort to understand. But it's the only answer that creates peace.

"We are all one" doesn't create peace anymore than saying "just walk forward" always gets you directly to your desired location. Its just fucking stupid.